Being Significant or Not

Wow! Never pictured the 1940’s New York City and the theater crowd quite like Elizabeth Gilbert does in her latest, City of Girls.

We are introduced to Vivian Morris, who at the age of 19 flunks out of Vassar and is sent to live with her aunt (Peg) who owns a run-down theater troupe in New York City called the Lily Playhouse.  The uptight proper life Vivian is used to peels away as she enjoys a freedom, she never thought was possible.  The first half of the book is Vivian’s coming of age – and what a time she had. But remember this is long before the social upheaval of the free-love 1960’s.

Vivian palled around with Celia, the most beautiful of the showgirls, who taught her everything she needed to know about getting men to buy them dinner and drinks and about sex.  They partied their way through the Stork Club and other popular venues, drank expensive champagne and had lots of sex. 

At one point there is a scene that grows dark. Celia is quite aware of what is happening and gets Vivian out of the way. To me it foreshadowed the events to come. Sex is never quite so free.

By the time Aunt Peg’s friend, Edna Parker Watson, and her much-younger husband come to stay, Vivian and Celia are out-on-the-town every night.  Edna and Peg decide to put on a show and Peg asks her ex-husband to leave Hollywood and write the play.  

The playhouse is brought back to life and the play is a huge success.  And Vivian has found a way to be involved.  She is an amazing seamstress.  She begins to date the leading man in the play and seems to settle down a bit.

Naturally, it all comes crashing down. And Vivian is at the center of it. Edna Parker Watson gives one of the best put-downs I have ever read. 

The second half of the book loses its intense tension but kept us riveted because we cared about Vivian and wanted her to be okay.

We all loved the book.  We read a lot of books set in the 1940s but usually around the war, so it was nice to imagine what the City was like at the time and also learning about the small theaters that use to dot the City.

Our book club talked about Vivian’s sexuality and the price she paid when it got out of control.  We talked about Edna Parker Watson, her reaction and about her husband.  We loved Aunt Peg.  Don’t we all want mothers like that?  Vivian’s mother was cold, but Aunt Peg gave Vivian the warm and love she needed.

We talked about the second half of the book and its difference from the first half. And the man she finally fell in love with.

Definitely a book club pick. Enjoy the ride.

Rating: 8.0

Summer of 1969

What goes through your mind when you think of the Summer of ’69 – free love, psychedelic drugs, Woodstock, Janis Joplin, Jimi Hendrix, Charles Manson, Chappaquiddick, Vietnam, San Francisco and the moon landing-so many things.  I was too young to be anything other than an observer. But what a year it was.

Elin Hilderbrand takes us back to that turbulent time in her latest Nantucket read about the Foley/Levin family.  She explores the unique dynamics of families when life happens with all its unpredictability.

Kate’s son, Tiger, gets drafted out of high school.  She wants him to go to college and avoid the war, but he refuses and enlists and ends up in the thick of the fighting in Vietnam.  This starts Kate down a summer filled with remorse and alcohol. 

Kate, her children, Blair, Kirby, Tiger and Jessie and her second husband David spend the summers in Nantucket with Kate’s mother Exalta.  The name sure fits the person.  The story line follows these family members as they acclimated to the ever-changing events of the summer of 1969.

As the counter-war on the establishment rages and the young people burn draft cards protesting the Vietnam War, Kate’s family gets caught up in the upheaval.  Blair, Kate’s oldest is married and having twins. Her husband didn’t want her to continue her studies or work.  She’s miserable.

Tiger is fighting in the war. Kirby is working for the summer on Martha’s Vineyard and getting into her own mishaps as only a young person can. And Jessie, only 13, falls in love with a young man staying in the family’s home.  What could go wrong?

What we enjoyed in this novel was the family dynamic and how each member grew over that summer, some in small ways and others in leaps and bounds. It’s an easy and delightful read.  It was fun for us to talk about that summer (most of us were in middle school-some a little younger).  We talked about how that year was as magical as it was scary to us with all its mixed messages.  We also talked about how different it was for women in 1969 and how we need to continue to go forward – never to go back.

Rating: 7.5 Photo by NASA on Unsplash

As a side note:  Mary Jo Kopechne babysat me when I was a small child.  My grandparents lived across the street from the Kopechne’s in Berkeley Heights. When she was in high school, she would babysit my brother and me when our parents went out with our grandparents. I was very young and don’t have a good memory of her, a bit here and there. But I do remember seeing her parents when I visited my grandparents over the years. Mary Jo was their only child.

It’s such a small world.  

Stealing Babies

Throughout history children have often been abused and killed at the hands of adults who should be there to help and support them. This novel brings us back to the 1930’s through the present following a fictional family and the horrific historical incidents surrounding an orphanage. Evil is interlaced with goodness as we see this gracefully told story unfold.

Lisa Wingate takes us back to 1939 on the Mississippi River in “Before We Were Yours.” Parents, Queenie and Briny have five children.  Queenie is pregnant with twins and can’t deliver the babies with a midwife.  Briny makes the decision to leave with Queenie to take her to a hospital.  What happens after that is such a miscarriage of justice that it’s hard to imagine that this actually happened to children in America. 

Wingate drew from the infamous Georgia Tann and her wretched Tennessee Children’s Home Society in Memphis.

Queenie and Briny’s high-spirited children left on a boat in the Mississippi River while their parents leave for the hospital. They are quite poor without any resources. Rill, Camiella, Lark, Fern and Gabion are taken by the police and put into the Tennessee Children’s Home. 

Fast forward to the present, Avery Stafford, a young lawyer, working with her father’s senatorial campaign has a chance encounter with May Crandall at a nursing home, her father happens to be speaking at.  This meeting set into motion a chain of events that would change all their lives forever.

This book has to be read without a lot of information given out beforehand. Wingate wrote a story with a lot of small moments that all become one large one and the reader should see it unfold the way it’s supposed to.

Our book club loved this book.  It’s quite sad at parts, and we may have glossed over a few things we felt too bad about. The book manages to end on a high note, but it stayed with me for days. I can’t fathom hurting a child.  It goes so against everything I believe in.

We talked about the children and the how their lives unfolded. Also, about the other children that no one seems to know about. So many of them were never found. We talked about motherhood and what that really means – biological and adoptive.

Every book club should read this book.

(There are quite a few non-fiction books on the subject that Wingate offers at the end of her novel if you want to continue reading on this subject.)

Enjoy.

Rating: 9 fffffffff

June 2015 Book Club

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Our book club went to dinner at Gladstone Tavern for our June meeting.  The book this month was Harlen Coben’s, “The Stranger.”  We have been reading Coben’s novels as a book club since his “Tell No One,” debut and we always enjoy his work.  See my review on the right.

And nothing beats having dinner with your friends and talking about a book you liked.  Life is good.

January 2014

Happy New Year and welcome 2014!

 

bfbc jan picThe Gang is almost all here – doesn’t happen often, but when it does it’s fantastic.  As with any new year, we are hoping we can make it through the challenges and bring some good fortune our way.

Speaking of good fortune, our book this month was John Grisham’s latest novel, “Sycamore Row.”  Grisham takes us back to Clanton, Mississippi (fictional town) and Jake Brigance, the hero of his first book “A Time to Kill.”   It was worth the wait.  (See my review under Reviews on the right by author’s name.)

A good pick for book clubs – exciting trial drama and good flawed characters.

Enjoy!

October 2013 – “Back to Blood”

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courtesy of Greater Miami Convention & Visitors Bureau

Our October meeting was quite small, so I saved the book “Reading in the Dark,” by Seamus Deane for November’s meeting.

I read Tom Wolfe’s latest novel “Back to Blood.”  I have a review under Reviews on the right for book clubs.  I always enjoy reading a Wolfe novel because he is such a unique voice in the literary world.  I remember reading “Bonfire of the Vanities,” back in the 1980’s, and my boss at the time said he couldn’t finish it, that all people are not that evil.    I did finish the novel and read his subsequent works.

When I read a Wolfe novel, I don’t read for the characters, but for that moment in time that Wolfe deems relevant to our microcosm here in the US.  His characters lack dimension and I rarely find myself rooting for one, but he has a way of developing the story and pushing us along with it.  He shows us a few snapshots of the microcosm and interprets it as only Wolfe can do.

I’m not sure that this is a good pick for all book clubs.  There are two very in-depth reviews that may help at 1) http://www.newyorker.com/arts/critics/books/2012/10/15/121015crbo_books_wood – this is an excellent review by James Wood; and 2) http://www.nytimes.com/2012/10/28/books/review/back-to-blood-by-tom-wolfe.html?_r=0 from The New York Times.

If you’ve read “Back to Blood,” let me know what you thought.