Striving for a Better Life

I’ve been thinking about my ancestors lately while listening to the rhetoric on immigration in this Presidential election. Somehow my great grandparents managed to make what was properly an arduous trip to America and become citizens.

One day I hope to look into my family’s genealogy and track down my roots. I’m sort of a mutt with Irish, English, Scottish and Dutch grandparents, but my maiden name is Sullivan, so I’d start with the Irish part of my lineage.

The Sullivans probably came here during or after the Great Famine between 1845-1849 when about two million Irish emigrated with 70 percent of them going to America, 28 percent to Canada and 2 percent to Australia.

When I began reading this wonderful book, I thought about my Irish ancestors and how difficult it must have been to leave their country, probably starving from years of famine, cramped onto a freighter or other in an ill-equipped boat over the Atlantic and then arriving at Ellis Island without money, a job or food. I’ve often wondered what they felt when they passed the Statute of Liberty. Was this country all they hoped it to be? How long did it take them to adjust? Did they ever want to leave? (more…)

A BYOB, a Mystery, and Friends – What could be better?

where they found herWe tried a BYOB in Randolph for a nice change for our monthly book club meeting.  It was a small group, but a lovely time. 

The book was “Where They Found Her,” by Kimberly McCreight.  A mystery touted in the “Gone Girl” vein. I found it to be subtler and less jarring than its predecessor. Everyone who read the book really liked it.  See my review on the right under Reviews.

A few of us from book club got interested in the author when we attended the Morristown Festival of Books last October.  She gave a talk and had a Q&A afterwards. She told the audience it took her 20 years and five books before she got published. It may have taken her a long time to get published, but she has certainly made up for it with two national bestsellers and a YA trilogy, “The Outliers,” with the first book coming out in May.  “Reconstructing Amelia,” her first novel was nominated for the Edgar Award.  All of her books have been optioned by Hollywood to be made into movies.

Her publication trials give me hope for my novel.  It should give everyone hope – Just keep writing!

An Appetite for Violets

February’s book club – “An Appetite for Violets,” by Martine Bailey

Group selfie.  Thought to take it after Jean had left.
Group selfie. Thought to take it after Jean had left.

 

 

Still talking about our crazy lives at the end of another wonderful book club.

I couldn’t help but look down at my food and give thanks that I didn’t have to eat any of the recipes in the beginning of each chapter in this month’s book club book “An Appetite for Violets.”   I don’t think they had any Cosmos back then either.

The book, however, was very good.

 

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September, 2015

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Ahhh, my favorite month of the year!  There is no finer month in New Jersey.  The weather is superb with warm temperatures, sunny skies with only a hint of fall in the wind.

For book club this month the book was “The Rumor,” by Elin Hilderbrand.  See my review on the right.  Even though we had a very small group we still had a lovely evening.

The book is about best friends who lose their way in their friendship aided by some gossip, both true and false, but do come to an understanding about what friendship is all about.

 

 

August 2015

patty and meWe had a lovely dinner at Café Azzurro for our book club meeting this month.  Also all of the members were able to come, and even my cousin from England who was visiting joined us.

The night would have been a perfect 10 (instead of a 9.9) if the book had been more suited to book club discussion.    We read “The Ocean at the End of the Lane,” by Neil Gaiman.   The book is an adult fairy tale that didn’t give us much in the way of discussion.  There was plenty of magic and imagination, but little for us to talk about.

So instead we moved right to Patty’s amazing dessert and satisfied our sweet tooth instead.

Death by Chocolate
Death by Chocolate

June 2015 Book Club

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Our book club went to dinner at Gladstone Tavern for our June meeting.  The book this month was Harlen Coben’s, “The Stranger.”  We have been reading Coben’s novels as a book club since his “Tell No One,” debut and we always enjoy his work.  See my review on the right.

And nothing beats having dinner with your friends and talking about a book you liked.  Life is good.

May 2015 Book Club Meeting

pink heart and bowWe went out to Tabor Tavern Inn for dinner, cocktails and our monthly book club.  So much fun!  I started off with a pink cosmo to salute our romance pick for the month.  Our book was Susan Mallery’s novel “Three Sisters.”

Actually, the novel was more of a chic lit/romance/beach read all wrap up into one.  See my review on the right.

Romance readers like happy endings and this novel ties everything up with a big pink bow.

 

April’s Book Club

girl trainThis month’s book was “The Girl on the Train,” by Paula Hawkins, a New York Times bestseller.  It’s a psychological thriller and what a ride.

This book won’t change your life or help with world peace, but it will keep you up till the wee hours of the morning. (See my review to the right).

When your book club is looking for something a little different, try this.

February 2015

roller coasterWhen you have freezing cold weather and way too much snow what else can you do but read.

We picked a real thrill ride of a story to keep us guessing all the way through the book.  I almost forgot about the wretched weather.

Our book was “The Truth About the Harry Quebert Affair,” by Joel Dicker.  It is an international best seller and a great read in front of the fireplace.  See my review on the right.

Every member of book club loved the book.

 

January 2015

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What a great way to start out the New Year with a little positive thinking!  Our book for January was “The Alchemist,” by Paulo Coelho. See my review on the right. Most of the ladies of our book club enjoyed the book and felt a little happier when they finished reading, and who could asked for a better result.